When you rescue the heart, you rescue a life.

Expectations that kill the heart

Filed under: Uncategorized — Jim at 10:31 am on Thursday, August 7, 2008

bigstockphoto_Last_One_Stan.jpgOne of my good friends said that because of the message he was hearing in church, he expected to sin regularly. Why is this?
Because the message of the church today may not, in fact, always be the message of Jesus. His offer is not simply “get forgiven — go to heaven.” Jesus’ message is, “I will give you a new heart.” — Radiant, strong, inclined towards goodness … and not towards sin. More to the point he says, “I will give you my own heart, removing the one that used to lead you into sickness, distrust and rebellion.” Take my heart.

You can now expect holiness from your heart, the  goodness and vitality of Jesus himself within you. And this gives you permission:  to indulge your deepest desires — for they are now untainted and noble. (Didn’t God promise to “give you the desires of your heart?” How did he do that?) He gave you a new heart — with fresh desires, some of which are unique only to your heart.

You can now expect to dream more earnestly.
Delight more relentlessly.
Resist your tempters more confidently.

Your heart is stronger and more noble than you think. Expect that.

New website look

Filed under: Uncategorized, New book — Jim at 8:44 am on Sunday, July 27, 2008

Yep, you’ve reached the site of author, Jim Robbins. Just the site’s look has changed.  The new look should reflect the intent and feel of my new book, Recover Your Good Heart.
All the site’s content has remained the same. Only the look has changed. Enjoy.

Is trying hard to act like a Christian the real point?

Filed under: Uncategorized, The Heart, New book — Jim at 11:19 am on Tuesday, July 22, 2008

image-balancing-act-books-s.jpgToday’s Church preaches a partial, and therefore weakened, anemic gospel. The Gospel has been reduced to: get forgiven—go to heaven. You’ve been pardoned, but now it’s your job to be a “good Christian” and keep your nose clean until Heaven. What starts with grace ends in pressure to be good. (Just get people to do the right thing.) The Christian life soon becomes about acting like a good Christian (religious duty) so that you don’t disappoint God or those around you. The externals (behavioral expectations) become more important than internal realities (the new resources of your heart). Even good practices such as serving others, worship, ministry and kindness become religious obligations, rather than the overflow of a new heart that is now genuinely for others and for God.

Here’s what one Christian discovered about the emptiness of living from religious duty and obligation:

I was a faithful Christian. I went to church every week and joined the men’s ministry—even went on a mission trip to Bulgaria. I want to say I was living for God, but I was living more out of duty and obligation. It was the ‘wanting to do the right thing’ type of living. On the outside I was the model Christian. However, I had a nagging sense of ‘there is something more,’ but I could not identify what the ‘more’ was.[i]

Any “gospel” that pressures people to be good inevitably brings shame; because ‘good enough’ is never good enough. How do we recognize the gospel of duty and pressure, and therefore, shame? This false gospel comes with the following message: “You’re not doing enough, you’re not spiritual enough, committed enough, selfless enough.” It’s the “not enough” gospel and it is often called “sanctification.” And how can you argue with that? Don’t you want to grow spiritually? Shouldn’t we serve, become more “Christ-like,” be committed to the mission? Here’s a troubling question, though: How can you ever know when enough is enough?

  • When you’ve read your Bible enough?
  • Shared your faith enough?
  • Been committed enough?
  • Love God enough?

To learn more about why good Christian behavior is not the point of Jesus’ message, explore Jim’s new book, Recover Your Good Heart — Living Free from Religious Guilt and the Shame of Never Good-Enough.



[i] Finnamore and Garvin, Treasures of the Kingdom, Vol. 1, (Coeur d’Alene: Starlight Publishing, 2007).

Praise for Jim’s new book!

Filed under: Uncategorized — Jim at 3:30 pm on Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Here is one reader’s comments about my new book, Recover Your Good Heart.

“I expected it to be good, but it really exceeded what I imagined.
I hope a lot of people read it. Your writing is quite good, too…
you give practical advice without preaching.”
- Meredith, from Tampa

DISCLAIMER!

Filed under: Uncategorized — Jim at 9:50 am on Wednesday, May 21, 2008

To borrow a disclaimer from the Wittenburg Door magazine, I want to offer a word of caution for potential readers of my new book, Recover Your Good Heart:

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But, if you’re tired of being told you’re not doing enough for the Church, or you’re not committed enough, tithing enough, serving enough, loving enough … then you may find this book completely refreshing.  Shame (not good-enough) and spiritual pressure (coaxing people into acting like good Christians ’should’) is not the path Jesus offers.

Click here to read an excerpt from “Recover Your Good Heart — Living free from religious guilt and the shame of not good-enough.”

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